It’s not uncommon for straight women to complain how their boyfriends, husbands, and casual partners are nowhere near as good at giving head as lesbians. Well, the same goes for the other side of the gene pool. Many heterosexual men will tell you how their gay buddies are way better at giving blowjobs than their female partners.
Still, one can’t help but wonder why anyone would claim such an outlandish thing. Are women really that bad at giving head, or are gays so good with their mouths? Well, that’s why we’re here. In the following few paragraphs, we’ll try to demystify this claim. So, join us on this I’m-not-gay-but-it-feels-good trip, and we’ll explain everything.
Bisexual’s POV
When discussing the gay and women blowjob comparisons, it’s only fair to begin from the most reliable source. Yep! We’re here to talk about male bisexuals. These guys are into both men and women, so they serve as most reliable when comparing how one group fares against the other. So, what’s their official stance on this sexual activity? Are they more into men, or are they more into women?
In short, most bisexual men consider gay dudes better at giving head. Off the bat, the main reasons are that men have bigger mouths, and they know what other guys need. But that’s not all. They suggest that gay guys have more experience with blowjobs, and they are — by definition — dick enthusiasts. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves here. Let’s explore each of these bold claims on their own to see whether there’s any truth to them.
Men Have Bigger Mouths
As we’ve said, the first reason why gay blowjobs are superior is the size of guys’ mouths. Of course, this doesn’t have to be the rule, and some women have bigger mouths than men, but we’re talking on average here.
Biologically, men and women are different, as we know. But aside from the apparent genital difference, the rest of our bodies differ in other ways. For example, men have broader shoulders, and women have wider hips. Similarly, their heads differ as well.
Men have larger heads. Still, that doesn’t make them smarter. It, however, allows for their mouths to be wider and, in turn, more accepting of a penis inside. That is why many men prefer their buddies to give them blowjobs. They can maneuver better and do all sorts of kinky and crazy things with their tongues and teeth to better the outcome.
Gays Know What a Man Needs
The second reason for this outlandish claim is that gays are more in tune with male needs. After all, they are men too. Since they have penises as well, they will know how to go about stimulating them way better than females. Of course, some females will also have excellent knowledge of dongs in some instances, but these women are rare. They require tons of experience before getting to the same level where the gays are.
Be it a sloppy amateur blowjob or something unique — gays do it with flying colors. Why? Well, they have themselves as role models for what their partner needs. They understand how hard or soft they should go, whether to touch the testicles or not and all other kinky details. That, however, shouldn’t come as a guarantee. It is all on average, meaning that some gays can and will disappoint when giving head. It’s how sex partners, after all.
Gays Have Way More Blowjob Experiences
Although the position of homosexuals in the world isn’t anywhere near as it should be, most gays are sexually active. Be it in gay-friendly countries of the West or places where there’s much more stigma and homophobia — they go about their sex lives like all others. In fact, some of them would argue that they are way more promiscuous than straight people. If this really is the case, then it’s safe to assume that they have more experience than women. Well, at least when it comes to blowing dicks and cum swallowing.
Interestingly enough, gay porn videos show more amateur blowjobs than straight ones. But it’s not just about someone finishing with cum in their mouth — it’s about being imaginative. From combining handjobs, blowjobs, deepthroats, you name it. Gays do all sorts of funky stuff with their mouths and hands, making oral sex a big part of their intimate relationships. And there’s a good reason for such practices. Namely, anal sex is much harder to enjoy, so gays focus on other ways of giving and receiving pleasure. Some of them even completely disregard penetration. It’s just too much work for unconvincing results.
Gays Are Dick Enthusiasts
Lastly, we need to mention one major issue guys have with straight women. Many of them believe that girls don’t enjoy giving head. They think that it’s some sort of obligation, making them do it just for the sake of it. In their eyes, most women don’t put much effort into blowjobs. It’s like some chore they have to get through before they can expect their partners to give them oral too and stimulate their clits. That’s, however, not entirely true. Many girls absolutely love to suck dicks and swallow. Either way, such questions don’t come into play when gays are concerned. They are all about dicks.
You can forget all about big tits, hunky shoulders, and wobbly butts. Gays are on the prowl for penises. Be they bulgy, curvy, or big dicks, homosexuals love and devour all of them in professional blowjobs. It’s safe to call them dick enthusiasts as such. And no, this isn’t homophobic by any means. Homosexuality revolves around men having the desire to be intimate with other men. Therefore, they want dick. From this basic sexual need, homosexuals perfect their blowjob skills and, in turn, give mind-blowing head.
Nevertheless, this text would do a disservice to women if we didn’t mention once again that many of them give great BJ as well. In fact, there isn’t an official contest that measures how good or bad women and gays are when it comes to oral sex. This is just a notion that many people seem to have and is, as such, only fair to explore. So, don’t take any of this for granted. Try oral with both if you’re looking for the truth, and have your take on it.
