The His and Hers Guide to Oral Sex

Fun fact: Guys in their thirties are more, um, giving.

While there’s little data from a generation ago, every expert we talked to says women are on the receiving end of oral sex more than ever. That’s possible because we’re more confident in bed: A recent study found that women who expressed their needs received more oral sex and that most young women believe it’s a turn-on for guys rather than a turnoff. “This points to a significant attitude shift—more women feel they deserve pleasure,” says Michael Reece, Ph.D., director of the Center for Sexual Health Promotion at Indiana University, Bloomington. We love that. It’s like entering a topless bar. Other news we just had to share:

It Happens More in Relationships.

Guys are more likely to go down on a woman when they’re in a relationship rather than during an impromptu fling, says a recent study. “People do a wider range of sexual acts in committed relationships,” notes study author Peter K. Jonason, Ph.D., a psychologist at the University of South Alabama.

Older Men and Younger Women Are the Most Generous.

The statistics say it all: Roughly 75 percent of women in their early twenties performed oral sex on a guy in the past year compared with 60 percent of thirtysomethings, according to a 2010 survey from the Center for Sexual Health Promotion. But among men, 55 percent of young twentysomethings doled it out compared with 69 percent of guys in their thirties.

It’s Not Much Safer Than Sex.

Readers always ask us, so here are the facts: The risks of acquiring STD from oral sex are slightly lower than through vaginal or anal, but you can, and it’s probably riskier for a woman to go down on a guy than vice versa. “Treat it as you would intercourse,” says J. Dennis Fortenberry, M.D., an STD researcher at Indiana University. That means getting tested and using a condom until you both get a clean bill of health.

Women Enjoy Receiving and Giving.

Gone is the idea that it’s obligatory sex like a birthday present for a man. An online study from the University of Alberta found that women usually connect going down on a guy with feelings of excitement and even power. “Women aren’t doing it just to please their partners,” says study author Brea Malacad. “There’s an element of control. It’s something that she can do for him that he can’t do for himself.” He wishes!

7 No-Pain Tips For Anal Sex Beginners (Who Are A Little Scared)

Anal sex can be intimidating at first, but you can make it easier.

Anal sex can be such a fun, exciting and super-pleasurable experience. However, lots of people get it so wrong that anal sex has a bad name. Some people try to avoid trying anal sex experience altogether.

That’s why I’ve put together this guide on how to prepare for anal sex to teach you exactly how to get ready for and have incredibly pleasurable anal sex with your man. First, I’m going to cover the ground rules of preparing for anal sex, which you absolutely can’t avoid, like staying clean and safe. Then, I’m going to discuss how to actually make it happen. Let’s get to it.

The reason so many people never want to try anal sex with their partner, or anal sex with a pregnant partner, is that they think it will be messy, unsexy or even unsafe. Follow these guidelines during your anal sex preparation and you will never have to worry about it being messy or unsexy.

1. First, make sure you are clean.

This first part is crucial. You need to start by making sure to use the bathroom. In the days leading up to anal sex, it’s a good idea to avoid Mexican food or any food that will give you a loose stool. I know it’s obvious, but some people totally forget about this. After you clean yourself on the inside, it’s time to clean your outside, too. This is usually a case of just having a shower.

2. Use the proper lubricant.

Some people think that just because you can’t get pregnant from anal sex means you don’t need a condom. If you are not both 100 percent monogamous or have been tested, you need to wear a condom. Catching an STI from anal sex is very possible. This is especially true if it’s the receiving partner’s first time, due to very small skin tears in the anus and rectum.

Choosing the right condom and lubricant is also crucial when learning how to prepare for anal sex. If you are using a latex rubber condom, then you must NOT use an oil-based lubricant. Oils will degrade the latex condom, making it highly likely that it will tear, something you absolutely don’t want to happen. So remember to choose a water-based lube when using latex condoms.

3. Don’t do anything you feel forced into.

One of the biggest problems when preparing for anal sex is that guys can develop an obsession with it. This is an ongoing issue in the gay community. It could be because he’s curious, he wants to tell his friends “I’ve had anal sex,” or it could be any other reason.

That’s perfectly fine, but you absolutely should never feel forced to have anal sex with anyone. Just because your man is insisting on it doesn’t mean that you have to do it with him. If you really don’t want to try it, then don’t. It’s as simple as that.

4. Learn to relax your sphincter muscle.

At the entrance of your anus is your anal sphincter. This muscle plays a crucial role in how much you enjoy anal sex with your man. This muscle isn’t like others. It can’t relax very quickly; instead, it takes quite a while to fully relax, but once it does, it can stretch quite a bit. When it’s tight, it’s very tight. So during your anal sex prep, you need to set aside some time to allow your sphincter to relax comfortably.

If your man just tries to enter you without allowing you to first relax, then you’re going to have a very painful time. A good way to start getting it to relax is to first slip a lubed finger in there. Then, hold it in place for a few minutes and just relax. You’ll notice after a while that your sphincter just naturally loosens up.

As it does, try slipping in a second lubed finger. Again, wait a few minutes and you’ll notice your sphincter muscle starting to relax further. Now you don’t have to use your fingers and can use clean butt plugs or dildos instead. The key is to allow your sphincter to relax enough so you can fit your man’s penis comfortably in you.

5. And then take a little time to prepare yourself mentally.

Obviously, anal sex is quite different to vaginal sex. The biggest difference is how it feels for both of you. For the receiver, it can be quite unpleasant at first, especially if your partner doesn’t understand how your anatomy works. That’s why finding time to relax beforehand is important.

6. Ease into it.

You should both start in the doggy style position, with your man upright and still while you are on all fours. This way you will have full control of how fast and deep you take him. Remember: He absolutely must stay still at first. As you loosen up and become more comfortable, you can start allowing him to thrust into you. Just make sure he doesn’t get too caught up and forget that you need to control the pace.

How To Use A Vibrator For The Most Intense Orgasms Of Your Life

Fall in love with your vibrator — again and again.

Learning how to use a vibrator is incredibly enjoyable, and a great way to explore what you enjoy most in the bedroom. This tutorial on using a vibrator will teach you exactly how to use your vibe on yourself when you’re alone as well as with your man during sex.

1. Find the best vibrator for you!

The first thing to realize is that owning a vibrator is completely normal. In fact, when I surveyed my students, over 55 percent of them reported owning one. So the last thing you should think is that owning or using a vibrator is somehow taboo. It’s not. It’s completely normal.

Not only is owning a vibrator normal, but it’s pretty darn cheap, too. While you may see “rabbit” vibrators and the Hitachi vibrator being sold for up to $100, you can pick up a simple battery powered vibrator for as little as $5 online and have it shipped discreetly to your home.

2. Once you have a vibrator, it’s time to get to know it.

Before you start using your vibrator during sex, you should start off by using it on yourself. This way, you’ll know exactly how to use a vibrator it for maximum pleasure.

Start by turning it on and playing around with the settings so that you can get an idea of how intense it vibrates. If you’re already turned on, then you’ll notice how pleasurable it feels just holding it in your hand while it’s vibrating.

3. Use it to bring yourself to orgasm.

You should find somewhere quiet, where you aren’t going to be disturbed. Make sure you’re relaxed and comfortable and suitably turned on. Different people need to do different things to turn themselves on. Some need to watch porn, some need to read some erotica or a romance novel, while others need nothing more than their imagination. The key is doing what you need to do to get aroused. Don’t rely solely on the vibrator to turn you on.

When you find yourself aroused, it’s time to turn on your vibrator on a low setting, then run it gently over your body. Don’t feel that you need to go straight to your most sensitive regions with it just yet — instead, pay close attention to what feels enjoyable and pleasurable.

You’ll notice that different areas of your body respond differently to it. In certain areas, it will feel too powerful and it will be more irritating than pleasurable. This is totally normal, all you need to do is turn down the intensity, while other areas will require a lot of vibrations to feel enjoyable.

4. Experiment and focus on what feels good without worrying about reaching orgasm.

Eventually, bring the vibrator down to your groin area and start running it over yourself and pay close attention to what feels best. In a way, you will now be teasing yourself with the vibrator. If you then want to increase the pleasure, you can start bringing the vibrator closer and closer to your clitoris. Many women report that direct contact with the vibrator on their clitoris is painful, so you may want hold it a little bit away from any sensitive areas.

If you follow all these techniques, reaching orgasm should be incredibly simple.

5. Add a vibrator to your and your partner’s sex life.

A vibrator is a great way to keep sex hot, especially if you usually have trouble reaching orgasm through penetration alone.

Just keep it beside your bed so that you can quickly grab it to help yourself out while having sex.

Using the vibrator on yourself is the obvious choice, but don’t forget that you can also use it on your man too during sex or foreplay. You can gently run it over any part of his genitals and he will enjoy it. But, don’t be surprised if you find your man climaxing in less than a minute when you use it on the top part of his penis.

One of the best positions to use your vibrator on yourself during sex is doggie style as you will usually have one free hand, but do experiment with other positions too to see what you personally enjoy the most.

6. Use your vibrator to put on a show for your man.

Remember, guys are visual. That’s why they like porn after all! So, turn the lights right down and just do what you normally do when you’re on your own.

You might find that your man doesn’t feel like he’s “enough” for you if you are using a vibrator during sex. So if you can tell that your man is feeling weird about it, just let him know that it’s not him. Explain to him that the ability to reach orgasm during sex varies massively from woman to woman. Let him know that you’ve always had trouble and that the {{ vibrator is just something to help you “get over the line.”

Some guys can be pretty dumb about this, even after you explain it to him, so don’t expect this to work with every guy.

The last important point to make on learning how to use a vibrator is that you need to make sure that you don’t become dependent on it. If you use your vibrator every single night, then your body can change and eventually you will only be able to orgasm using a vibrator … Making sex a “meh” activity.

10 Tips for a Better Orgasm

No one actually needs to rally for the wonders of an orgasm when there’s enough research—as psychologist and sex therapist Mary Jo Rapini explains—that the tremor-inducing release of serotonin and endorphins can boost the immune system and decrease stress and anxiety.

But when there’s still a wide “pleasure gap” to bridge today—the term describing the slim number of women who experience orgasms during sex in relation to men—the main question is how.

Below, we consulted advice from across the scientific spectrum, from medical studies to sexperts to sex therapists, on ways to enhance the female orgasm and feel connected to your partner without giving up your primal right to come.

1. Ramp up the Foreplay

A study in the journal Hormones and Behavior shows that an increase in the “love drug” oxytocin helped couples have more intense orgasms. It doesn’t require any supplements for a big boost in the hormone, though, as your average cuddling, hugging, kissing, and bonding activities can do the trick. Make sure to carve out more bonding time with each other or extend your foreplay sessions before sex to enhance your sexual performance.

You can even do role-playing with your partner. There are a lot! You can be the dominant teacher demanding cock cages to be worn by your “slave student”.

On the other hand, if urethral play is your kind of foreplay, you can do so. Just remember the risks it entails. Trying urethral plugs to dolls first is a safe option before actually doing it.

2. Delay Gratification

Instead of speeding toward the finish line, science says that building your way up to the brink of orgasm then stopping—otherwise known as edging—and building yourself back up to the point of climax can encourage better, stronger orgasms. You can also practice this using cock cages. Cock cages are not scams, they are legit! In fact, they are effective. Not only that, these cock cages improve semen volume so you can feel the strong burst upon ejaculation.

These cages can be hidden in plain sight. In fact, you can try wearing chastity devices in London or in other public places without being notice.

3. Exercise, Exercise, Exercise

Sign up for a 5K race or schedule a game of tennis. Merely anticipating a competition triggers a 24 percent boost in testosterone for women, according to a study published in the journal Evolution and Human Behavior. And any increase in that hormone also drives up your libido, so consider it a win-win. Plus, exercise stimulates blood flow to the genital area, increasing desire and lifting your mood.

4. Turn Up the Heat

Prior to sex, take a hot bath (try showering together), or—if you’re short on time—place a warm washcloth over your vulva for a few minutes. Heat boosts blood flow to your vagina, leading to increased lubrication and sensitivity, says Hilda Hutcherson, author of Pleasure.

5. Try the Tantric Method

As tantric instructor Dawn Cartright explains, harnessing the power of breath can slow down your mind and make it hyper-sensitive to full-body sensations. Open yourself up to orgasmic joys by breathing and rocking together, then tightening your PC muscles before sex.

6. Sip a Sex Tonic

Let an ancient sex stimulant work its magic: Warm some milk, add a pinch of saffron, and drink up, says Aliza Baron Cohen, author of Sex: Rediscovering Desire Through Techniques & Therapies.Saffron, which releases its intense flavor when heated, has been considered an aphrodisiac for thousands of years. Or, take one of Amanda Chantal Bacon’s cult-favorite Sex Dust formulas for a spin.

7. Recharge Your Batteries

Women who use vibrators say they have an easier time reaching orgasm during (vibrator-free) sex with a partner, according to a survey of 1,656 women conducted by the Berman Women’s Wellness Center. If you’re tech-friendly, try a vibrating “bullet” attachment that’s discreet enough to fit in your pocket (or on your neck). Or, get him in the action with one of the many couples’ vibrators out there, from the We-Vibe to the Eva.

8. Strike at the Optimal Moment

During the first two days of your cycle, your testosterone levels surge, your libido soars, and your breasts and clitoris become ultra-sensitive, says Gabrielle Lichterman, author of 28 Days: What Your Cycle Reveals about Your Love Life, Moods, and Potential. Intense orgasms may happen more easily than usual—and multiples are much more likely. Experts also suggest timing sex in the early morning when men experience their highest testosterone levels, or in the afternoon on weekends when women tend to ovulate.

9. Step Up for a Quickie

For stellar sex in a hurry, pull on a skirt and find a deserted staircase, suggests Sex for Busy People and The Field Guide to F*cking author Emily Dubberley. If you’re shorter than your guy, stand a step or two above him. Face him or turn toward the railing so he can enter you from behind. (Hint: Grip the rail for leverage—and don’t lean over too far!)

10. Try a New Rhythm Method

Majorly elevate your odds of climaxing during sex with the Coital Alignment Technique, says Dubberley. Have your partner lie on top of you, with his pelvis directly over yours. Wrap your legs around his thighs and rock together gently. Push up and forward so that your clitoris makes contact with the base of his penis. Patience is key: Find your rhythm, like you’re doing voluntary natural insemination, and stick to it until you orgasm.

What’s a Rabbit Vibrator & Should You Buy One ASAP?

This iconic vibrator made its first appearance in a Sex and the City episode in 1998. Since then, nobody talks about it without mentioning the famous characters from the show. In the well-known episode, Miranda recommends the Rabbit vibrator to Charlotte while Samantha jokes about its name. Still, the Rabbit becomes so powerful that Charlotte doesn’t want to leave home because she enjoys it so much. Finally, Miranda and Carrie drag her out of her bad to put a stop to her addiction.

So, what’s a Rabbit vibrator? It’s a dual-action vibrator which allows penetration and clit stimulation simultaneously. Those two options put a smile on women’s faces and provide a variety of possibilities. Hence, 20 years later, the Rabbit is still a star.

A lot of women require both penetration and clitoral stimulation in order to climax; the Rabbit does both. Even though most pleasure comes from the clitoral stimulation, internal pressure feels good too. Many women seek this combination in order to achieve an orgasm.

The Rabbit is a phallic-shaped vibrator; in addition, it has a little arm, called the Tickler, which protrudes and is sometimes shaped like a real bunny. Inside the shaft, there are encapsulated pearls which allow the shaft to rotate. Some women find all of this a bit overwhelming, and that’s fine. Some newer models include less-intense options, without the protruding Tickler or the pearls. That might be a better choice for beginners.

Since the Rabbit is a bit big, some women find it hard to use, or they even feel intimidated by it. Sexologists recommend practicing with some basic tools – that is, your hands – before you rush and purchase the Rabbit. Fingers are also great for vaginal penetration. You can use a small vibrator or your fingers to stimulate the clitoris at the same time. Consider your hands an entry-level Rabbit.

When you feel like you are ready for the real Rabbit, take your time to explore your body with it. You can do it either with your partner or alone. Take baby steps if you are intimidated by all the features it provides. You don’t even have to insert it straight away. Try out stimulating different parts with different speeds of vibrations. Rub it on any place where it feels nice (your breasts are great for this).

Vibrations from the Rabbit could feel wonderful if you are up for that. If not, it can feel like too much. It’s best to insert it without the vibes the first time; that will feel much more comfortable. Also, don’t forget to use the lube; it will keep your parts from becoming sore. Keep in mind that the user manual doesn’t recommend using it for more than 20 minutes at a time.

It doesn’t matter if you like Charlotte or Miranda better; what matters is that the Rabbit might be great for upping your sex routine.

Why do some straight men think that gays are better than women in giving blowjobs?

It’s not uncommon for straight women to complain how their boyfriends, husbands, and casual partners are nowhere near as good at giving head as lesbians. Well, the same goes for the other side of the gene pool. Many heterosexual men will tell you how their gay buddies are way better at giving blowjobs than their female partners.


Still, one can’t help but wonder why anyone would claim such an outlandish thing. Are women really that bad at giving head, or are gays so good with their mouths? Well, that’s why we’re here. In the following few paragraphs, we’ll try to demystify this claim. So, join us on this I’m-not-gay-but-it-feels-good trip, and we’ll explain everything.

Bisexual’s POV

When discussing the gay and women blowjob comparisons, it’s only fair to begin from the most reliable source. Yep! We’re here to talk about male bisexuals. These guys are into both men and women, so they serve as most reliable when comparing how one group fares against the other. So, what’s their official stance on this sexual activity? Are they more into men, or are they more into women?


In short, most bisexual men consider gay dudes better at giving head. Off the bat, the main reasons are that men have bigger mouths, and they know what other guys need. But that’s not all. They suggest that gay guys have more experience with blowjobs, and they are — by definition — dick enthusiasts. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves here. Let’s explore each of these bold claims on their own to see whether there’s any truth to them.

Men Have Bigger Mouths

As we’ve said, the first reason why gay blowjobs are superior is the size of guys’ mouths. Of course, this doesn’t have to be the rule, and some women have bigger mouths than men, but we’re talking on average here.


Biologically, men and women are different, as we know. But aside from the apparent genital difference, the rest of our bodies differ in other ways. For example, men have broader shoulders, and women have wider hips. Similarly, their heads differ as well.


Men have larger heads. Still, that doesn’t make them smarter. It, however, allows for their mouths to be wider and, in turn, more accepting of a penis inside. That is why many men prefer their buddies to give them blowjobs. They can maneuver better and do all sorts of kinky and crazy things with their tongues and teeth to better the outcome.

Gays Know What a Man Needs

The second reason for this outlandish claim is that gays are more in tune with male needs. After all, they are men too. Since they have penises as well, they will know how to go about stimulating them way better than females. Of course, some females will also have excellent knowledge of dongs in some instances, but these women are rare. They require tons of experience before getting to the same level where the gays are.


Be it a sloppy amateur blowjob or something unique — gays do it with flying colors. Why? Well, they have themselves as role models for what their partner needs. They understand how hard or soft they should go, whether to touch the testicles or not and all other kinky details. That, however, shouldn’t come as a guarantee. It is all on average, meaning that some gays can and will disappoint when giving head. It’s how sex partners, after all.

Gays Have Way More Blowjob Experiences

Although the position of homosexuals in the world isn’t anywhere near as it should be, most gays are sexually active. Be it in gay-friendly countries of the West or places where there’s much more stigma and homophobia — they go about their sex lives like all others. In fact, some of them would argue that they are way more promiscuous than straight people. If this really is the case, then it’s safe to assume that they have more experience than women. Well, at least when it comes to blowing dicks and cum swallowing.


Interestingly enough, gay porn videos show more amateur blowjobs than straight ones. But it’s not just about someone finishing with cum in their mouth — it’s about being imaginative. From combining handjobs, blowjobs, deepthroats, you name it. Gays do all sorts of funky stuff with their mouths and hands, making oral sex a big part of their intimate relationships. And there’s a good reason for such practices. Namely, anal sex is much harder to enjoy, so gays focus on other ways of giving and receiving pleasure. Some of them even completely disregard penetration. It’s just too much work for unconvincing results.

Gays Are Dick Enthusiasts

Lastly, we need to mention one major issue guys have with straight women. Many of them believe that girls don’t enjoy giving head. They think that it’s some sort of obligation, making them do it just for the sake of it. In their eyes, most women don’t put much effort into blowjobs. It’s like some chore they have to get through before they can expect their partners to give them oral too and stimulate their clits. That’s, however, not entirely true. Many girls absolutely love to suck dicks and swallow. Either way, such questions don’t come into play when gays are concerned. They are all about dicks.

You can forget all about big tits, hunky shoulders, and wobbly butts. Gays are on the prowl for penises. Be they bulgy, curvy, or big dicks, homosexuals love and devour all of them in professional blowjobs. It’s safe to call them dick enthusiasts as such. And no, this isn’t homophobic by any means. Homosexuality revolves around men having the desire to be intimate with other men. Therefore, they want dick. From this basic sexual need, homosexuals perfect their blowjob skills and, in turn, give mind-blowing head.


Nevertheless, this text would do a disservice to women if we didn’t mention once again that many of them give great BJ as well. In fact, there isn’t an official contest that measures how good or bad women and gays are when it comes to oral sex. This is just a notion that many people seem to have and is, as such, only fair to explore. So, don’t take any of this for granted. Try oral with both if you’re looking for the truth, and have your take on it.

Pleasing Your Man in Bed the Right Way

If you’ve always found it hard to please your partner in bed, we’re here to help you out. This is the only guide you’ll need because it contains the simplest — but most effective — tips and tricks you can use. We guarantee that your partner will be blown away by how good of a job you’re doing. So let’s explore how to please your man in bed the right way.

Explore More

You know how great it feels when your partner is all over you. So now it’s time to do the same for him. You know he deserves it. It’s not all about penetrative sex or oral. Instead, get creative and explore his entire body. Who says men don’t like their nipples sucked? If your partner is one of those people, we assure you that’s only because he’s never had anybody do that to him before. This is your time to shine.

All you need to do is stimulate his nerve endings. It doesn’t mean you should just suck his nipples because there are multiple things to try. For starters, you can just caress his entire body and pay attention to his reactions. Once he lets you know what feels good, you’ll know what to focus on. Everything that follows will be a breeze, and he’ll be in for playtime he will never forget.

Grab His Behind

Similarly to playing with your man’s nipples, it’s time to give his butt a bit (or a lot) of attention. Men usually steer clear from any kind of butt play, so it’s on you to show him how good it feels. Maybe he’ll finally understand why you ask him to grab your butt all the time. However, there’s so much more than just squishing the two cushions.


Once you have your hands on his butt, you’re more in control of what’s going on. If you’re not really vocal, this is the perfect way to let him know if you want him to go faster. Simply put, you’ll be in control of his thrusting speed and motions, and we bet he’ll love that you’re taking the initiative.


On the other hand, squeezing will allow you to pull on the skin with a lot of nerve endings, and that’s stimulation in itself. Once he’s more comfortable with the “butt stuff,” you could progress to other things, such as stimulating his anus during penetrative sex. He doesn’t know it yet, but we guarantee that he’ll lose his mind over it.

Add Moisture

Don’t let a little wetness scare you, no matter where it’s coming from. All kinds of sex require lubrication, and that rings true for some forms of foreplay too. Everything just feels better when things aren’t dry. So it doesn’t matter if you’re in for oral, penetrative sex, or simple foreplay, always ensure that wetness is coming from somewhere. If you don’t have lube nearby, that’s perfectly fine too. Spit might be a bit off-putting for some people, but it’s the best lubricant you have at any time, and it will help with any kind of sex idea you have.


We all know how important lubricant is when it comes to penetrative sex. When we’re talking about oral, it’s only natural that lubrication exists. However, if you’re just giving him a hand job, things can be pretty dry. That’s why you should ensure to add moisture because dry hand jobs never make anyone feel good. What’s more, they can be quite painful if done completely wrong.

Express Yourself

This is not the time to be shy. Plenty of people find being vocal awkward. However, you should definitely get used to expressing your wants and needs. Not only will you and your partner be able to please each other better, but you’ll know if you’re doing a good job too.


People aren’t mind-readers. On top of that, you can’t expect your partner to figure out your body language every single time. Don’t get us wrong — you don’t have to express yourself seductively or even moan if you don’t want to. All you need to do is give your partner some words of encouragement and tell him if he’s doing a good job.


If not, that’s okay too. You can always guide him by telling him to go faster, slower, or however else you want him to. Ideally, he’ll be doing the same for you. If neither of you is being vocal, you can encourage each other by asking if you’re doing things the right way. These things take time, but practice always makes perfect.

Focus on His Head

Oral sex isn’t as difficult as many people imagine it to be. However, if you feel like you’re just not hitting the right spots, you might be focusing on the wrong part of the penis altogether. It’s not all about gagging and deep-throating until you pass out. Sure, that might feel good and be sexy to some, but think about the nerve-endings again. You won’t find them at the base of the penis, and they are the area you should be stimulating.


Most nerve endings can be found at the tip of the penis (or the head). This is where you want to be most of the time. Sure, you’re more than welcome to stimulate the shaft with your lips, tongue, or hand. Still, you should never forget about where your focus should be.


If you want to help your partner have the time of his life, stick to stimulating the head the best way you know how. There are various things you can do. When you pair them up with exploring his entire body and other things you’ve learned here, you’ll find that pleasing your partner is much easier than people make it seem. So don’t be shy and go for it!


The role of “the pleaser” is often given to men, which means their pleasure is pushed aside. Sure, they aren’t left without orgasms, but we’re sure men would like to be treated as well as they treat their partners. Next time, take the initiative and show your partner just how deserving he is.

Qualities That Makes a Good Latex Clothing

PVC and other types of plastic are not the best materials for creating clothes, but on the other hand, they bring variety to the fashion world and in some cases are very convenient and practical.Plastic products are very cheap and easy to manufacture, which is why it is more profitable for fashion brands to create plastic bags than leather ones, especially since the movement of various vegetarians and animal advocates is gaining strength and winning new and new supporters who will be happy to buy plastic clothes and accessories.

Of course, all this is nonsense, plastic clothes do not save rare species of animals, and the environment is more harmed than natural, but today we will not open our eyes to those living in the power of delusions. There are different Types of latex clothing and their usages for you.In any case, plastic has undeniable advantages over natural materials. For example, rainy weather, which so often happens in London and St. Petersburg, will give full effect to the merits of plastic clothes and accessories.

If you wish, you can assemble a finished image of plastic by buying clothes, shoes and a handbag, and then you are not afraid of any rain! In addition to rainy weather, bags and shoes made of various types of plastic will be a great solution for visiting the beaches. It is also featured in Cosmopolitan how someone became a clothing designer.

In the near future we will see a lot of new clothes and accessories made of plastic. 3D printers are becoming more accessible and more perfect, thanks to which, more and more people will be able to try to realize their creative ideas. Take a look at for more PVC clothing.

One of the fashion trends in 2018 is plastic

Therefore, fashionable catwalks and our wardrobes began to fill clothes with PVC. The most luxurious brands in their fashion collections offer skirts, dresses and other clothes made of PVC. For example, the popular brand Balkan shows plastic clothes in its new collections on the most successful models. And in glossy magazines you can find enthusiastic reviews that are called PVC by the new material of the space era, as well as high-tech and futuristic material.

Clothing brand Balkan, like many other brands, really looks very fashionable and beautiful. In some cases, overalls, skirts and dresses made of PVC, look no worse than the products of patent leather, so they can successfully replace it for animal lovers and vegetarians. However, today “Fashion” offers you to figure out how this material is high-tech and can help save nature.

A bit of history

PVC (polyvinyl chloride) is not futuristic and not high-tech. He is the oldest type of plastic, which appeared almost two hundred years ago. The first samples of this material were obtained in 1835. And all this time polyvinyl chloride has been used in various fields, including the fashion industry.

Skirts, dresses and other plastic clothes are not new. This fashion trend was already present on the catwalks. However, it is now very popular to abandon natural materials such as fur and leather. Fashion trends offer to take care of animals and about the future of our planet.

We have nothing against the clothes of their PVC, but you should know that this is not the most practical clothing, which, however, has its charm and helps in creating fashionable images. However, buying clothes made of PVC is wrong to believe that you care about nature. Even clothes made of genuine leather, especially cotton and linen, are more harmless to nature than things made of PVC.

At all stages of its existence, plastic causes great harm to nature. And it begins with the production, in which toxic substances are formed. However, the most important problem that is associated with the use of polyvinyl chloride is that it is very difficult to dispose of. In case of incomplete combustion, PVC forms toxic compounds and carbon monoxide.

In addition, much is said about the fact that recently even water pipes are not made of polyvinyl chloride, but of polypropylene. And only sewer pipes are made of PVC. Therefore, you should not assume that when you buy clothes from this material, you care about nature. This trend benefits only manufacturers, because plastic things cost a penny, and can bring a good profit. 

To acquire or not to acquire?

  • PVC clothes are not practical; they are afraid of direct sunlight and cold. Some additives changes in plastic can compensate. For example, sometimes manufacturers use reflective dyes.
  • Plastic items at all stages of their lives will harm nature, from their production to disposal.
  • At a very small cost, these items are sold at inflated prices, especially if they are accessories or clothing from fashion collections of famous brands.

The latest fashion collection of the brand Balkan, of course, is beautiful. However, to buy or not to buy things from plastic, you decide. It may be worthwhile to buy clothes made from leather and wait until truly new and eco-friendly materials appear. After all, it is completely unfair to call plastic, which is almost two hundred years old.

Like when they bind you? I bet you tend to dominate outside the bedroom. “In sexual fantasies, people turn to what they lack in life,” says Jacoby. “This fetish has become so common that it is no longer considered a real fetish.” Sometimes a fetish of skin appears in the binding, which is the symbol of the bad guy.

According to the Archives of Sexual Behavior, more than 10% of the guys admitted that they had spied at least once in their life. “Most guys like to watch others have sex,” says Jacoby. “I think this is one of the reasons why pornography is popular among men.” And all this is due to the prohibitive theme of sex in childhood. All are related to latex fetish.

Minor repairs can be made using a cement-rubber solution slightly diluted in a cement-rubber diluent; Coleman camping fuel can also be used as a thinner with cement-rubber. Spread the latex to be repaired on a glass or plastic surface. Make sure both interior surfaces are clean and apply a thin layer of the mixture to both interior surfaces. They roll up a little, it’s normal. Wait about 15 minutes. Join both surfaces carefully. Clean the excess mixture with a little thinner by first applying it to a soft, clean cloth. Apply another layer of cement-rubber solution to the inner part of the pieces you have just joined. When dry and flat, apply a small piece of lira or spandex or nylon stocking with some cement-rubber solution on one side. If you still have an old piece of latex from an old garment, it’s even better! Use powder or polish to remove excess glue before storing or wearing the garment. Wait 24 hours before wearing.

Hitting The G-Spot | Best Sex Toys for the Ultimate Sexual Experience

Fortunately (for us), the sex toy industry has grown well since the nineteenth century, and now the fun is no longer prohibited. That’s pretty good since we’re going to talk about vibrators, remote controlled eggs, clitoral pebbles, and other fantastic items. provides a wide array of sex toys for your G spot.

Dildo save the queens

The dildo, this object imitating the penis of a man, has already a few centuries behind him. Coming from the Latin “gaude mihi” , meaning “rejoice me”, the dildo has gone through the ages without getting a wrinkle. In leather, wood or even stone (yes yes), this object of pleasure has also been a therapeutic object. The first vibrators (in the 1880s) are used to “calm” hysterical women by causing them an orgasm (to believe that sexual dissatisfaction undermines the mental health). Tired of having to masturbate their patients, the doctors decide to invest in war machines to calm these poor women. Here is how the first vibrator was born (not really glam). You also need to have a proper idea regarding best sex toys for your g spot.

How to choose a sex toy?

Before buying a sex toy, it is first necessary to think about the usefulness that will have our new toy. Will he serve as a couple? Alone? The 2? Are you more clitoral or vaginal? Do you first need to get aroused by porn? Do you seek to know your body better (say Google Maps, where is that damn G spot) or are you just looking for raw pleasure? These questions will help you find the toy you need, do not hesitate to ask a sales consultant. And sometimes, this new erotic companion does not appeal to the first use, it is necessary to persevere! Mater and understand how this stallion works. If after 3 to 4 uses, nothing works, it is not suitable.

Clean up his sex toy

The rare pearl finally deigns to point the tip of his nose. Adopted as part of the family, he does not let us go! But beware, the goal is to take pleasure and not catch infections, we do not forget to clean his toy before and after use with either an intimate soap, baby soap or Marseille soap. In short, mild soap with a supplement, an antibacterial without alcohol. It is thought to rub well at the ribs and corners of the sex toy to prevent dirt from getting lodged there. Steel and glass toys can also be simply soaked in boiling water for cleaning.

Butt plugs improving your sexual relationships, there are tons! You only have to calculate the number of erotic shops, multiplied by the number of toys on site, added all that can be found on the Internet in short, there are many. This week, rather lingered on those resolutely geeky!

The Crave Luxury Duet

The Duet Luxe is actually a USB key with a built-in vibrator. Available in 8 or 16 GB of memory, water repellent and 24K gold plated, the Duet Luxe offers five intensities of vibration. Its format is of absolute discretion. This toy will certainly enhance the breaks in the office!

The condom company has put on the market perfect underwear for couples who live love at a distance. On a business trip for a few weeks, it’s a webcam, but nothing beats the caresses of your partner. Fund wear comes with electronic sensors that will vibrate to reproduce the “caresses” that your sweet half has remotely simulated by a Phone application. Available for men and women, just slip on the underwear, press the interactive areas and have fun!

The Vibrator – Geek sex toy

Ladies, this is the ultimate Phone accessory! You have a few hours in front of you, you are alone and you relax listening to your favorite music. And if you embellish even more this solo moment? Plugged into your iPod / iPhone the OhMiBod Vibrator 3.0 will vibrate to the rhythm of the music you listen to! It’s up to you whether you’re feeling more Micheal Bublé or Justin Timberlake!

The Mojowijo on the Wii

The Mojowijo turns the Wii controller into a remote controlled vibrator with software installed on your computer. Available in both male and female formats, it is possible to “play” on-site or over the Internet where the controller will interpret the movements that the gaming partner achieves remotely.

RealTouch Interactive

The RealTouch Interactive is designed for you, gentlemen. This machine that seems straight out of NASA actually simulates a vagina. Equipped with a built-in lubricant reservoir, rotating latex balls and a heating system, it will fulfill your solo evenings. Do you think that’s enough? Well no! The RealTouch has a whole service that allows you to watch movies or make virtual appointments with a webcam with girls with RealTouch Joystick. Thus, all the movements of the pornstar with RealTouch Joystick will be replicated in your RealTouch Interactive. Guaranteed pleasure.

Create your own toys

The arrival of the 3D printer revolutionizes not only the world of engineering but also that of sex. The company Maker understood this by offering absolutely free sketches of printable sex toys from home. There is something for everyone, from the traditional penis shape to Hello Kitty’s design and even the head of Sigmund Freud; you’ll be spoiled for choice in the 3D creation of your toy. Before buying sex plugs for call girls, better consider this option first.

The Sexopoly

You will understand that the Sexopoly is the sexy version of the famous Monopoly! Unlike the traditional game of buying land and railroads, Sexopoly is based on the sex industry. So you can buy lingerie shops, pornography distribution companies or adult dating websites. The prison becomes the dungeon where several consequences will have to be played. To play as a duo or with very close friends.

Small bonus

In closing, here are three applications on smartphones that will put a little spice to your sex life!

Action or truth sexy version

Offered for free on Phone or Android, Action or Truth sexy version is an adaptation of the popular game Truth or Dare where you have to answer a question or make a consequence. You can choose the number of players, the sexual orientation of them (hetero, bi or gay) and the version (soft, sexy or hot!).

I just made love

We already know the Foursquare application with which we “check-in” in places to allow all our contacts to locate us at the restaurant or at the convenience store. Well, it is also possible to do it at the places where we made love thanks to the application I just made love offered on Phone and Android. You can even reveal in which positions you did it!

Sex track

Sextrack is the application available on iOs par excellence to measure your sexual performance. Conceal your phone under the duvet and while you’re in the middle of the game and it will start evaluating your sex position skills in bed. The app calculates the speed, intensity, the number of calories burned and even gives you tips to improve, graphs to support! For the bravest, it is possible to publish its results on social networks. Cosmo reveals the existence and location of g-spot.

Carnelian yoni egg Experience During Pregnancy

You gave birth vaginally and your perineum is in poor condition? So you have very pleasant problems of urinary leakage at the limit of incontinence, sexually you do not feel much pardon darling. In short, you do not feel glamorous, sexy, or woman, or pretty, it’s a disaster. Do not be scarred by words.

However, rest assured; it is still possible to turn to natural solutions to address this problem of size perinea size or rather tonicity in fact.

Perineum, yoni egg and childbirth

To do well, experts strongly recommend you buy yoni eggs. That is to say a natural stone egg that you insert into your vagina. The stone brings you energy and if you do exercises you will find a more toned perineum. No more urinary leaks and hello orgasms! You feel better and your husband is more than happy. Also know that many women say that their loved ones, in the broad sense, will feel a real difference. This means that you will radiate happiness and assumed femininity. It makes you want, does not it?

Choose your yoni egg.

If you know the benefits of yoni eggs, it’s normal that you want one. Indeed, these eggs were made initially to re-muscle the perineum of new mothers, today the use is different and if it has kept its original purpose it also serves as an intimate toy.

Do not choose a yoni egg on a whim because each material brings different virtues such as pink jade that brings soothing, quartz softness, amethyst transformation, tiger’s eye strength and interior other precious stones still.

Choosing to find a more fulfilling sexuality and a life of woman at the top can go through a yoni egg. Yoni comes from the Sanskrit word meaning vagina.

Popularized overseas by celebrity blogs, the yoni egg is a natural stone egg (it’s important to specify it) that is worn in the vagina, by session, helps to find a toned perineum.

How to choose a yoni egg?

A yoni egg, as you can see on the websites, is a jade, quartz or obsidian egg. It exists in 3 sizes, to see according to the state of your perineum. Then, take some time to tame the egg, learn to slide it inside and do some activities to make it muscle perineum. You will quickly make the difference in your intimate life but also every day.

On a spiritual level Yoni represents femininity – or Sacred Feminine – feminine sexuality, energy and confidence in her recovered body. Yoni Eggs connect the woman to her body, allowing her to be tamed or reclaimed. On a physical level Yoni Eggs are used to strengthen the pelvic floor and the perineum. They are ideal to use after pregnancy, childbirth, to curb small urinary leakage for example.

Teenage girls can also use them to trust their transforming bodies. They allow finding an emotional and physical stability. Yoni’s Eggs are companions for women of all ages, at every stage of their lives.

Read this article to know more about how Yoni eggs represent feminity.

Which size to choose?

Most of our Yoni Eggs are sold in packs of 3 sizes. This allows you to use each Yoni Egg step by step.

How to use Yoni Egg?

Yoni eggs are inserted into the vagina. They do not have to be very big for that. Eggs made of too large crystals would be difficult to hold in place because of their weight.

On a spiritual and mental level, the Yoni Egg can be used by all women who are looking for the re-appropriation of their body, their femininity, their sexuality. It is also useful for women who have experienced traumatic episodes in their lives and who prevent them from being completely comfortable with their body, their sensations, or with their partner. (Transition to adolescence, hormonal change, virginities, abuse)

You can choose the Yoni Egg you prefer and insert it into your vagina. The ideal is to lie down and leave it, time to relax or meditate with the egg. Some women prefer to sleep all night keeping their Yoni Egg in place.

At first, if you are uncomfortable with the idea of ??putting a Crystal Egg inside your body, in this intimate place, you can start by appropriating it yourself by meditation while holding it in your hand or by putting it on your lower abdomen, directly on the skin preferably. On a physical level, Yoni’s Egg is used to regain the muscle tone of the pelvic floor. You can start testing Yonis eggs of every size and start with the size you are most comfortable with.

For example, the bigger one will be harder to hold in place because of its weight, and the smaller one will help keep the pelvic floor in constant tension precisely because of its small size.

At first, you can start using the Yoni Egg a few minutes at a time. Then, the ideal is to do sessions of 15 to 30 minutes a day, while standing. You can go about your usual business. If the egg does not hold up early, do not worry! It is precisely by the constancy of the exercises that the musculature will be strengthened.

How to choose the stone, the crystal that suits you?

Each semi-precious stone or crystal has specific effects in litho therapy. The yoni eggs sold on trusted online stores are of different sizes that can be divided into three groups: small, medium and large, which corresponds to a height of 30, 40 and 50mm.

The size of your vagina will determine the size of the egg or balls; obviously, the bigger the egg, the more you will feel it. It is necessary to feel it physically to work the muscles but not if you want to work only with vibratory energies of the stone (in meditation for example).

Large: this size is indicated if you have a large vagina, simply, and you can not feel the medium size egg. It is also indicated in case of relaxation of the perineum, for example when:

  • You can not feel or contract your vagina anymore.
  • You suffer from urinary incontinence: you have leaks when you laugh, cough or sneeze; you often need to go to the bathroom.
  • You have difficulty emptying your bladder.

An exception: If during reports, the “woman on” position causes you to have lower abdominal pain, choose an egg or smaller balls to avoid pain. Practice the exercises diligently to tone your muscles and prevent the uterus from descending further.

Medium: this size fits most women.

You get to contract your perineum but you feel like it could get better. You master the size “big”.

Small: eggs of this size are barely larger than a tampon and most women cannot feel them, at least not at first. An egg of the size “small” is used in the following cases:

For vaginal meditation the goal being to feel and work with the energetic vibrations of the stone, you do not need to feel the egg on the physical plane – on the contrary, it would be rather embarrassing.

You have a good command of the “average” size and you want to push the exercises even further with the “small” size.

You suffer from vaginismus. You are virgin.

Here are speckled obsidian eggs 30, 40 and 50mm high.

What stone?

You can choose your stone based on the descriptions provided on each product page, to work on a given problem or solve a specific problem.

Each stone is associated with one or more zodiac signs. If you choose a stone that is associated with your astrological sign, it will reinforce your positive characteristics in relation to your sign. But you can of course choose a stone associated with another astrological sign than yours.

You can also choose according to which chakras it is associated with, to work on the chakra in question and / or to strengthen its links with the root chakra since this is where you place the egg. In general and in case of doubt, trust your intuition and choose the stone that attracts you the most, simply. This is the one you need. Get your own yonieggs now!